YES! As long as he is a man of God, he's in his purpose and God actually gave me the green light to date him!
📚Storytime📚
I had a great convo with a handsome bus driver once. It was so good, when he reached the last stop he allowed me to stay on the bus with him while everyone else got off so we could continue chatting.
He wrote his number down on a transfer then handed it to me. He said, "I never connected to any woman the way I connected with you". I was flattered but I never called him cuz he said he was married with 5 kids. And I told him that I couldn't promise him a phone call cuz he was married. I appreciated him for being honest cuz not too many men would be honest.
The giving out of the phone number was the start of infidelity on his part and if I actually called him, I would have been enabling his behavior. No thanks! I would have felt guilty and I know how karma works. So yeah him and I never dated and we couldn't!
Another time, there was an average-looking, heavyset bus driver who was interested in me. He kept bragging that he had a good pension and gives really good foot massages with the oil n all. We didn't even have a regular conversation yet and he was getting into all that😂 I immediately turned that down cuz I could tell he was desperate.
I thought to myself, "does this man want me to use him or something?", which I wouldn't do btw. And from what I can remember, he initiated the conversation and asked me,"You like massages?" or "You like getting foot rubs?"
I just can't take a man seriously if he's gonna start a conversation off like that. Unless he's promoting a spa that just opened down the block, I'm not taking him seriously. I'm gonna assume that he's on the prowl for some physical action. I'm good. We never dated.
And last but not least, there was a FINE bus driver once who took REALLY good care of himself. I'm talkin about fresh haircut, nice features, great skin, biker shades on and arms that were about to bust out of his uniform sleeves!😍🤤
I gave him a compliment and he said, "Thank you. Lemme give you my number (555-fineazhell), the name is Mike". I contacted him but he kept playing games so I let him go✌🏼#dating
